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practical wisdom for challenges

In reality,every problem has a spiritual root but you still have the physical aspect to tackle,been born again gives you the needed wisdom to tackle the spiritual,which is paramount.But do not be in a haste to discard the physical.you need wisdom to tackle the physical pain,problems and confusion that challenges bring.
WISDOM NUGGETS
1.Get away from every form and channel of negativity.when you are passing through challenges,there is hordes of well-wishers and unfriendly friends who come with their own form of consolation packaged as pity for your situation.Do yourself a favor and get away from such people even if it is family members.if it means you relocating if possible,do so.find solace in people who see beyond your situation.any person that makes you dejected because of what you are passing through should be avoided.That you have cancer shouldn't be why somebody will come and be telling you that so and so died from cancer.


2.seek help.you aren't alone,there are people who have been through what you are going through.there are also people who their job is to help you.seek them out.a note here,number 1 also applies here.even among your helpers,anyone who gives you only negative vibes,please do well to change lane.that a consultant is adjudged as the best in a state and the only thing he gives you is negativity about your condition,please do well to seek a second opinion.nobody is a monopoly of knowledge talk more in the cancer world which is full of all manner of uncertainties.no matter the situation think positive.


3.Don't be desperate.try to be in control.when you are desperate,you become gullible,lack focus to make good judgement.and trust me,the world doesn't care about your condition,they will take full advantage of you.be sure to scrutinize all advise that come your way.don't swallow all,hook line and all.that you have cancer,is not why what someone has not verified,they will pass unto you.drink coconut juice,lime,bla bla bla,it cured Esther's cancer, as if they saw it with their eyes or they where there.haba.they are trying to be helpful oh but that's why you also need to help yourself.


4.Loneliness is dimensional now,so watch it.find a balance.do you want to be alone for quiet time with God or are you alone because you are angry at everyone and everything.Guard your thought,they can become life and possess you.


5.Be focus.when you decide to do something.do it to the end.don't be a jack of all trade and master of none.your doctor ask you to follow a regime,you do it two times and a friend tells you about herbal and you jump ship,next three months you are at another doctor's clinic and complaining.haba.


Remember you alone decides the outcome.Cheers
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